Love, mutual trust and respect are the things that build on strong relationships. It is an endless give-and-take. If your partner considers himself more important than you, is self-oriented, or isn’t concerned of your feelings, they certainly don’t deserve you. The expression: “We don’t know what we have until it’s gone” is usually too true. No matter how much effort you put to change them, some people never change. If they don’t know how to respect you, they don’t deserve your love.
Here are four indicators that you give your love to someone that doesn’t deserve it:
They Belittle You
If your partner belittles you or criticize you all the time, it means that they are not concerned about how you feel or that they even enjoy hurting you. Someone who mocks your look, your weight, your job, dreams or beliefs isn’t worth your love. They say those cruel comments only to hurt you. A person who loves you never in their wildest dreams would they tear you down. They would make you happy, support you and motivate you instead. They would never criticize you, belittle you or make you feel as if you don’t deserve to be happy
They Lie To You
Without trust, the relationship is deemed to an end. A person who really loves you will be aware of how important the mutual trust is. If you constantly catch your partner in a lie, they’ve never valued trust. When someone lies to you, he is also disrespecting you. A person who deserves your love will never lie to you. In fact, they won’t have what to hide from you.
They Cheat On You
A person who has cheated you does not deserve any second of your time. Cheating is related to egoism. The moment they cheated on you, they destroyed everything about the relationship: your intimacy, your communication, all your trust and everything else that constitutes a good relationship. If they cheated you once, they will do it again. Leaving them can seem as the hardest thing you’ve ever done, but you need to do it for the sake of your self-respect and self-worth.
They Are Undependable
You normally expect that they will be there for you when you need them the most, that’s how love works. Whether your computer broke down and it needs an immediate repair, or you’ve just had the worst day at work and you need someone who can hug you and wipe your tears off. If your partner isn’t there for you when you need them the most, it means only one thing: they don’t care about you. They are too concentrated on their own happiness so they can’t fix someone else’s emotions. Forgetting important dates, cancelling on you at the last minute and many other things that make you disappointed and miserable signify that it’s time to put an end to that relationship and carry on with your life. Remember that if your partner is undependable, they don’t deserve you.
